Roman Empire

This goes out to all the HOTTIES wondering who they can even trust.

This past week I’ve learned that a man you could solely be co-workers with can be madly in love with you. He could have made this fantasy/ delusion that you have somehow expressed any interest. Although you’ve only remotely interacted. Now this man is engaged to a woman you know, but you don’t really know her. You just know of her existence but basically have the same nearness as you and this DELUSIONAL man.

This is the same man you proposed to this woman. Is soon to be married. He is blowing up a female co-worker phone asking if she still has feelings for him. HOW? WHY?

Is it unreasonable to think that a man who is soon to marry is in love with only his soon-to-be WIFE?

So the only reasonable thing to do is tell him he shouldn’t be reaching out or feeling this way about anyone but his fiance. Tell him that the so-called feeling I thought I had for him never existed in the first place. It was through his own delusion. If he wasn’t in love with his fiance then he should call things off before he waste this woman life. HER TIME, YOUTH, and FEELINGS.

Can’t help but think if I can’t trust the man who claims to love me and proposes to me; then what love can I trust? Maybe I can still have hope that my female relationships are more fulfilling.

Just when I thought I had found a silver lining my friend Katie who dated this god-awful man for a year told me something to even make me second guess my female friendships. Not only had she dated this total douchebag for over a year; one of her so-called friends slept with the man and never told her.

Let’s say her friend’s name is Cathy, and Cathy had slept with this man before they had started officially dating. Typically I would say this is no issue. However, CATHY is the same woman who considers herself Katies best friend, twins, thicker than thieves. If this woman really felt that way about Katie why wouldn’t she tell her “best friend” about them hooking up?

If you hold someone in high regard, wouldn’t you want them to be fully informed? Some common decency so that if she ever heard anything about it there would be no doubt in her mind.

Granted the boyfriend never said anything but he’s a dirtbag all around. It could’ve easily meant nothing to either of them but still would’ve been nice to Katie the same woman who considered them to be sisters. If you cant even trust your closest friends then who can you trust?

Biggest advice I can give love who you want to love but don’t hurt or waste other peoples time. Think about it like, would you want someone to do this to your sister/ brother or child? Plus, Karma is very real so what you put out there will come back around.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)