Welcome Back!

Unfortunately for everyone involved, Young, Hot & Unhinged is back.

I started this blog when everything felt cinematic. When every bad decision felt romantic, every heartbreak felt world ending, and every night out felt like the beginning of a story I’d eventually tell differently.

Then life got real. Weird. Painful. Beautiful. Embarrassing. Sometimes all at once.

There were moments I wanted to write about everything, and moments I couldn’t even find the words for myself.

But I think that’s the point of being young. You become five different people in one year and somehow still wake up as yourself. So here I am again.

Older. Hotter. Slightly more unhinged.

And this time, I have more stories to tell. 

New posts every Thursday at 8:30 PM.

Triad of Balance

This goes out to my HOTTIES who try to balance their passions, goals, and working. (requested blog)

We all as people sometimes try to do it all. We want to pursue our passions, goals, and work. I like to call this the Triad of Balance, because in all honesty it’s a balancing act.

Just like a balancing act it requires practice, which means a lot of trial and error. Now while you are juggling three different things you can really only focus on one thing max maybe two things at once. Spreading yourself too thin can lead to burnout and some unfortunate setbacks.

I have been known to be highly ambitious and constantly be pursuing my passions, goals, and work. For reference one of my passions is this blog, one of my goals is becoming an Air Force officer, and I still balance my work as an Air Traffic Controller. Starting with my job it’s known for being stressful and hard although I don’t find it to be. My biggest obstacle was my upgrade training, and the learning never really stops. However, I knew that had to be my first priority especially since work funds my living and all my other goals. Then, I focused on working towards my commissioning package which required me to balance school and volunteering. Somewhere, along the way I found a passion for blogging, but I do it whenever I can.

The best breakdown is prioritizing is key; identify your priorities and use time management tools. When it comes to identifying priorities start by clarifying what matters most to you at any given time. Is it advancing in your career, pursuing a creative endeavor, or achieving a personal goal? Utilize tools like calendars, to-do lists, or time-blocking techniques to structure your day around these priorities. This helps in staying organized and ensures that each area receives the attention it deserves.

Focus and mindless is your next key player, take it one step at a time and practice mindfulness. While multitasking seems efficient, it often dilutes focus. Instead, focus on one task or project at a time. This not only enhances productivity but also allows for deeper engagement and better results. Incorporate moments of mindfulness or meditation into your routine. This helps in reducing stress, enhancing clarity, and fostering creativity—all essential for maintaining balance.

Make sure while pursuing all this you remain flexible and adaptable, embrace change and learn to say no. Recognize that priorities can shift over time. Stay flexible and be prepared to adapt your schedule and goals accordingly. Understand your limits and don’t hesitate to decline additional commitments when necessary. This protects your time and energy for what truly matters.

Now if you ever feel overwhelmed you can always seek support and collaboration. Surround yourself with individuals who understand your aspirations and can offer guidance or encouragement when needed. Where possible, collaborate with others who share similar passions or goals. This not only enhances creativity and motivation but also distributes workload effectively.

Most importantly prioritize SELF CARE and REFLECT regularly. Remember to take care of your physical and mental well-being. Adequate rest, nutrition, and exercise contribute significantly to overall productivity and happiness. Schedule time to reflect on your progress and adjust your approach as necessary. Celebrate achievements, learn from challenges, and set new goals to continue growing.

The biggest takeaway is achieving balance among passions, goals, and work is an ongoing journey that requires patience, practice, and self-awareness. By prioritizing effectively, maintaining focus, staying adaptable, seeking support, and practicing self-care, you can navigate this triad with greater ease and fulfillment. Remember, balance is not about perfection but about continuous adjustment and alignment with what truly matters to you.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Jumping Jellybean

This goes out to my HOTTIES who have dated a short king.

Let me start by saying I am not tall by any means. I am only 5’2 ft, as others have said I’m only 62 inches. Which made my dating pool larger. Since my only requirement had been to be taller than, and LITERALLY everyone is taller than me.

Although my typical boyfriend had been about 6ft not all of them were. So, I’ve given that short king a chance in fact more than just one. My thought process was great things come in small packages (like me of course). However, they have come out to be nothing, but the same shitty men plus vertically challenged.

I am always here for discretion, so this awful Napolean syndrome of man I will talk about we should refer to him as the Jumping Jellybean. This man seemed great on paper, or shall I say at first, he did. I give him credit for acting humble for along as he did. Well accomplished at his job, caring, into investing, works out, and really cares about his family.

I couldn’t help but think what was I thinking? This man was in his 30’s and if he really was the whole package, why wasn’t he already taken? Foolish young me gave in to those first impressions and I really just felt pressure because this man was my supervisor.

I should have realized that I really just felt pressured because he was my supervisor. I was nothing but a spineless young girl too scared to tell her day-to-day boss no. It really would be easy for me to just blame it on that. But another big reason I couldn’t say no was because I was in the worst mentally state ever. I had just gotten an award at work and instead of the men at work congratulating me they called me a WHORE. The once friends I had now started hating me; I was holding on for dear life as a woman that had little respect to start with.

To all my readers that think I’m smart for my age and that I have it all together. Well just know at this point of my life I didn’t. My lapse in judgement made my confidence be flushed down the toilet. Which made me overthink my value in the workplace; and if you know anything about me my professional life is everything to me. The career hungry, motivated, confident, and happy woman had faded away.

I couldn’t help but overthink my value, my career choice, and most of all this shit show with my boss. Was it my fault for being vain and so into my looks? Did leaving everything I know to pursue my dream career WRONG? Was it my fault that I got black out drunk? Did he know how drunk I was?

This jumping jellybean might have been my biggest lapse of judgement/ mistake. It was the first time in a long time I had doubt in me. This was true learning experience that shall never be repeated again. Best advice I can give is this can happen to anyone, but the most important thing is how you come out of this.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Match My Freak

This goes out to my HOTTIES who bring all the PERSONALITY!

Let me start off by saying I know I am a BITCH. I wouldn’t have it any other way. Big personalities can be hard to understand and not for everyone. People like me are usually praised by the gays, others with big personalities, or the very rare secure/confident individual. Sadly, my demographic typically includes the insecure straight man (lol).

I find fulfillment in my friendships, which tend to be the most rewarding relationships. I am loud, opinionated, passionate, and driven. Most of all, I am unapologetic about it. When I’m wrong, I own it—I'm only human. If I don’t know something, I openly admit it and proceed to “fuck around and find out.”

I’ve been living with a “fuck around and find out” mentality for as long as I can remember. Of course, never at the expense of others or important situations. Life, as I see it, is a series of “fuck around and find out” moments. If I don’t try, I will never know, and if I don’t make mistakes, I won’t improve.

You know that saying, “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results”? I’m sure most of you have heard it in science class or English. It holds the same meaning as “fuck around and find out.”

My mother, a traditional Hispanic woman, always said something along the lines of “curiosity killed the cat,” which I can’t help but laugh at. The irony is that my mother was the first in her family to do many things: putting herself through higher education, being a single mother of two, and much more. She basically lived life on “fuck around and find out.”

I can’t help but think that knowing the shit my mother has lived through and I have survived, why fear anything? I know who I am and what I stand for, so I can’t help but be confident, happy, and unapologetically me. The only person I have to explain myself to is me. So, yeah, maybe that makes me a bitch.

I’ll tell you what, though: you will never question where I stand. You will never question my intentions or end goal. It may not be the same as yours. Judge me if you want, but know that I couldn’t give two fucks.

To all the people who find me or people like me insufferable: it’s okay, sweetheart, what you feel towards us is none of our business. To all the people like me, keep doing you. We can only control ourselves and our thoughts, so why not make all our energy positive and productive?

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

AMERICAAA!

This goes out to my HOTTIES who LOVE 4th of July!

The Fourth of July is always a day of celebration, but this year felt extra special. Maybe it was the perfect summer weather, or perhaps it was just the right blend of good company and vibrant festivities. Whatever the reason, this Independence Day turned out to be one for the books.

I think this year especially the one for me because two things I love are JULY 4TH and CAESAR SALAD. Just some background information Caesar salad was invented July 4th, 1924. Which made this July 4th not only Americas independence but also the 100th birthday of the Caesar salad. So it was only right for me to bring in this glorious day in my best patrioct outfit and eating a Caesar salad.

I kicked off the day with a leisurely morning, enjoying the luxury of sleeping in a bit later than usual since Brianna (my roommate) and I hit the gym very late the day before. The sun was already shining brightly by the time I had my first cup of coffee. There’s something about a slow, relaxed morning that feels like a celebration in itself. I spent some time opening up the blinds and taken in the great rays.

One of the highlights of my Fourth of July was lounging by the pool and working on my tan. I recently discovered an amazing new sun tanning lotion that promised a golden glow without the harshness of some other products I've tried. As I applied it, the lotion's tropical scent instantly transported me to a beachside paradise. Lying back on my sun lounger, I could feel the warm rays enveloping me, the lotion working its magic as my skin gradually took on a sun-kissed hue. It was pure bliss, taking in the rays, feeling the gentle breeze, and knowing that I was safely and effectively enhancing my summer glow.

By midday, it was time to head over to a friend’s place for a classic Fourth of July BBQ and pool party. The smell of grilled burgers and hot dogs filled the air, mixing with the scent of sunscreen and the sound of laughter. It was refreshing interacting with new individuals and met this most wonderful woman (miah).

As the sun began to set, we gathered our things and headed outside to see some exciting fireworks. We found a perfect spot on the grass, spread out our blankets, and settled in for the show. The atmosphere was buzzing with excitement.

After the fireworks, a few of us lingered at the house, enjoying the warm night and the lingering glow of the festivities. We talked about everything and nothing, savoring the last moments of the holiday. When I finally got home, I was exhausted but happy, my heart full from a day well spent with people I care about.

This Fourth of July was a perfect blend of relaxation, fun, and celebration. It was a reminder of the importance of taking time to enjoy the moment, to celebrate freedom and friendship, and to make memories that will last long after the day is over.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Bittersweet Goodbyes

This one goes out to all my HOTTIES who are friends with an ex-lover

I definitely started off as a girl that thought “I could NEVER be friends with an EX”, yet time has come to prove me wrong. Now don’t get me wrong if a man cheated or did me dirty NO way in hell will I be forgiving. A bitch can hold a grudge and I like to thank my daddy for that. :)

Life has taught me that there will just be those lovers you will find that things have run their course. That each other’s goals, wants, or needs are simply not compatible. These are the lovers we grow to love enough to let go because we want to see each other happy without the expense of the others happiness. I like to call them my bittersweet goodbyes.

I wouldn’t do anything differently with these men, wouldn’t trade a single minute spent together. They grew to be the best and most gentle lovers I have ever known. To grow with someone and love each other enough to let each other go because we both deserve something more. This is truly something quite so beautiful. You become the greatest of friends supporting each other’s happiness.

In no way I am saying go ahead and make friends with all your ex-lovers. I am simply saying that sometimes we can just end romantic relationships on good/mutual terms. In no way do we need to have an active friendship with any of our ex-lovers; BOUNDARIES are still very important.

With all this I can’t help but think why we even wish evil/ bad on our EX?

Some do horrendous things, but I hope that they come face to face with their mistakes. Every time I have taken a step back and wished them nothing but the best they can have. But of course, not as fabulous cause they won’t have access to me (lolz). The world/ universe whatever you want to call it has met them with karma or made them reflect. So, don’t waste that negative energy because there is already so much out there. Instead wish your ex-lover nothing but peace after all this is someone you once whole heartedly.

This is good advice for even those friendships that come to end. Although they are two different types of love we have for people. I have come to realize for those moments that I need closure, that this approach gives me that. Nourishing your mind and life is the best type of closure you can give yourself.

So, the biggest takeaway is life is unhinged, unpredictable, and full of surprises. Our friendships and romantic relationships will have its own unique twists and turns. Embrace the unpredictability with an open mind and heart. There will be awkward moments, but also opportunities for deep, meaningful connections. Approach this new chapter with the same adventurous spirit that defines your hot, young, and unhinged lifestyle.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Twenties Tango

This goes out to my HOTTIES in their 20’s.

I have only embarked in my twenties chapter a year ago. Now I have been a victim of people always thinking that I’m in my mid-twenties. Used to make me think it’s because maybe I need some Botox or filler. I was in my head making up the idea that I had wrinkles. In time I was told that it was my mannerisms, the way I carried myself, and how put together I am.

Now while I do appreciate that I am put together; all of us are experiencing life for the first time. The 20’s are particularly special; we have a lot our life’s first during this time. That first big job, first apartment, first serious relationship, first roommate, first time living alone, first time moving to a new city, and many more. There is something so beautiful about your first, so much room for success and same amount for failure.

I can’t help but think that labeling setbacks or mistakes as “failures” seems irrational, especially when we're young and navigating these experiences for the first time. If you think about it is quite funny how we put these harsh expectations when half the time that you are in our twenties our frontal lobe isn’t even fully developed. Science has shown us that our prefrontal cortex is typically fully matured by age 25, some studies even suggest into the early 30’S. So, I guess what I’m saying is give yourself some grace in our 20’s we are still growing and still maturing.

One of my closest friends (Mark) tells me all the time that I have my life together. We had a quick little catch up session the other day and he’s basically known me my whole life. So, he has a good idea about where I started in life and some things I’ve been through. He was amazed that I had done everything and working on everything I said I would. Joining the Air Force, finish training early, pursuing my bachelor's degree, and doing volunteer work. It made me laugh, only thing I could say was “why wouldn’t I do all the things I set out to do?”

I have always known what I wanted to do and if things changed, I adapted. For all my friends that ask, “how I do it?” or “how do I keep up?” It comes down to why not. As young people we set out to do things we want and love. Some have given up and been through so much to be where they are. So, why not set out to do the things you want to do. Doesn’t always matter how you get there but that your journey was unique to you. That you stayed true, made mistakes, made huge leaps, and even encountered setbacks. However, progress is not linear especially when it comes to life.

In no way I am minimizing the struggles, but things require work. It’s okay to feel lost and not know what you want. There are plenty of people who are. As long as you're working on improving overall, the end result will be positive. If you are more like me and know exactly what you want it is also okay to feel overwhelmed. It is okay to take a step back to re-evaluate, to reprioritize, and sometimes a fresh pair of eyes is just what we need. One day at time with one goal at a time, and the goal keeps getting closer.

So, the biggest take away is the Twenties Tango will be chaotic, but it is so beautiful. We only get to be in our twenties once; take this time to figure yourself out, make the mistakes, and take the risk. You won’t get this time back and in your 30’s you’ll reminisce on these experiences/ memories. Live your 20’s the way you want to and don’t let anyone tell you different.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Roman Empire

This goes out to all the HOTTIES wondering who they can even trust.

This past week I’ve learned that a man you could solely be co-workers with can be madly in love with you. He could have made this fantasy/ delusion that you have somehow expressed any interest. Although you’ve only remotely interacted. Now this man is engaged to a woman you know, but you don’t really know her. You just know of her existence but basically have the same nearness as you and this DELUSIONAL man.

This is the same man you proposed to this woman. Is soon to be married. He is blowing up a female co-worker phone asking if she still has feelings for him. HOW? WHY?

Is it unreasonable to think that a man who is soon to marry is in love with only his soon-to-be WIFE?

So the only reasonable thing to do is tell him he shouldn’t be reaching out or feeling this way about anyone but his fiance. Tell him that the so-called feeling I thought I had for him never existed in the first place. It was through his own delusion. If he wasn’t in love with his fiance then he should call things off before he waste this woman life. HER TIME, YOUTH, and FEELINGS.

Can’t help but think if I can’t trust the man who claims to love me and proposes to me; then what love can I trust? Maybe I can still have hope that my female relationships are more fulfilling.

Just when I thought I had found a silver lining my friend Katie who dated this god-awful man for a year told me something to even make me second guess my female friendships. Not only had she dated this total douchebag for over a year; one of her so-called friends slept with the man and never told her.

Let’s say her friend’s name is Cathy, and Cathy had slept with this man before they had started officially dating. Typically I would say this is no issue. However, CATHY is the same woman who considers herself Katies best friend, twins, thicker than thieves. If this woman really felt that way about Katie why wouldn’t she tell her “best friend” about them hooking up?

If you hold someone in high regard, wouldn’t you want them to be fully informed? Some common decency so that if she ever heard anything about it there would be no doubt in her mind.

Granted the boyfriend never said anything but he’s a dirtbag all around. It could’ve easily meant nothing to either of them but still would’ve been nice to Katie the same woman who considered them to be sisters. If you cant even trust your closest friends then who can you trust?

Biggest advice I can give love who you want to love but don’t hurt or waste other peoples time. Think about it like, would you want someone to do this to your sister/ brother or child? Plus, Karma is very real so what you put out there will come back around.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Heartbreak & Healing

This is for HOTTIES always interigating about my love life.

This year I met the first man I ever truly loved. Now I understand that is a bold statement, but up until him it has been nothing but young puppy love. To be fair I’m only 20. So I guess I’ve now entered that point in life that I can emotionally and physically be deeper with someone.

Now as my friends know and make fun of me for, I notoriously date older men. Maybe its the daddy issues or abandonment. All jokes aside this was someone I did not see coming into my life at all. He’s significantly older and comes with baggage that deserves long time commitment. When he first reached out I really had second thoughts about even talking. Eventually I craved every interaction, the other things in the world seemed to fade away when together. I was happy to say the least.

This year I went through some hardships in both my personal and professional life. He was my biggest supporter and for once I met someone I actually wanted to spend time with. Despite my emotions or effort things didn’t work out.

Typically after a break up I spend time with friends and do things for self improvement. This time was different. As I am approaching the ripe age 21 I suppose it makes sense. It is said that every 7 years the human body goes through major changes, Maybe that’s why my old ways of coping and healing are no longer effective.

MAYBE I let myself be vulnerable; I had finally let someone close enough for me to care about them. Let myself fall in love because I wanted this to be it.

So now at this new stage in my life I look for new ways of healing. So if you ever feel lost its okay. Whether you are in your young 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, or 60’s; there is always more. I at times get overwhelmed because I feel like I should have everything figured out. However, life is forever changing so it is forever teaching us things.

A rough patch, a set back, a re-start are all opportunities for growth. Life is beautiful and has so much to offer. Never forget your worth but always strive to improve.

I will update you nosy HOTTIES on my healing sources at the end of this year.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Lust V. Love

This blog goes out to all my beautiful women who struggle with lust.

In all the men I have dated, time and time again, I have found myself in this issue where they are upset about the attention I demand. Women with beauty and/or personality have this captivating essence. Through no fault of our own, we may not walk into a room looking for attention but naturally call for it. Now, while this may be flattering, it is fleeting.

Time and time again, we hear that a man/individual can’t handle being with a “bad bitch”. Although, I don’t think that completely captures what is going on. Being commented that “I’m sure you have eyes on you everywhere you go” is at times disheartening. It especially hurts when a partner says it, and what they don’t realize is that it's just people lusting. The truly dark side of that attention is people just want to say they experienced you.

Lust is transient, often dissipating once its immediate gratification is fulfilled. It thrives on the surface, driven by superficial desires and fleeting pleasures. In the pursuit of lust, people may prioritize physical satisfaction over emotional connection, seeking instant gratification without investing in deeper intimacy.

Sometimes lust attracts the men we fall in love with. Although, that lust can at times become something beyond physicality, encompassing emotional and intellectual bonds. All the reasons we attract that partner are, at first, all the things they praise. Even with a built foundation, once these men realize that other men notice, gravitate, and give you unwanted attention for those same attributes, it becomes a problem.

The way you’ve acted and the way you carry yourself are now all of a sudden a problem. You haven’t changed; you have acted the same way from the beginning, and they want to change you. Some men take a beautiful woman and hide her from the world. They don’t realize that asking us to change pushes us away, and any other attention not coming from our partners is unwanted. Like it literally could not matter how many men are blowing up my phone; if I’m with you, that is the only attention and energy I crave.

Anyways, I would say the biggest takeaway is don’t compromise who you are for the ones you love. The right man will cherish and praise you and continue to do so. He will understand that the things that attracted him to you may be the thing that attracts others. However, they will not let this interfere in the relationship. Do not let a man that once praised you dim your light. You can be HOT, YOUNG, and UNHINGED with values.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Snowbunny Takeover

Join me as I delve into the heart of the Sunshine State, where sun-kissed beaches, electrifying nightlife, and the promise of theme park thrills beckon like a siren's song. But this isn't just any ordinary escapade—it's a snowbunny takeover. With my trusty female roommate by my side and the unexpected reunion with an old high school friend.

First things first, let's talk about my roommate. Brianna is the kind of person who keeps grounded and the most trustworthy friend I’ve found out here in Kansas. She just spawned out of nowhere and since then we have never stopped yapping.

I went to high school in Florida so we met up with an old friend of mine. Jules is the type of person who makes a grocery trip into a party. So it was a no-brainer to call her up shes the life of the party and realest person I know.

Sleep was definitely not on the schedule for us so it was activity after activity; simply three women having a great time. We started off with a trip to Coquina Beach at the Gulf of Mexico. How could we not take the opportunity to catch some rays and get a tan. Although Brianna could not fucking tan for the life of her and I got my white ass a little burnt.

We also had to take advantage and make plans ro go clubbing later that day. However, we made a little shopping trip to get cute clothes to go out. After a long drive home and a fabulous time getting ready together. We really stepped out to the club. Shakai Shushi Lounge was our first stop of the night and they had a great DJ,crowd, and staff. Later we went to Eden which was a whole other vibe Shakai had more a spanish vibe which I loved since I’m Colombian and its hard to find a hgood spanish vibe out in Kansas. Eden had great hip-pop and rap and the crowd was absolutely amazing. People were a whole vibe and super welcoming and met some other great women there. We end our night of clubbing getting a slice of pizza and meeting a bunch of strangers on the way back to our car.

Second day is kicked off with a trip to Universal Studios and Island of Adventures. Now Brianna and I dragged ourselves through the parks as we were exaushted from the night before. It was still a great time as always and butterbeer better than ever. After a wonderful day at the park we went to Bubba Gump at Universal City Walk which is a new tradition I adopted from a friend (Jo). We went back to my aunts house which is where we were staying and rested up a bit before heading out to the club again. Brianna, Jules, and I got dolled up to have another great noght together. After speanding a great time togther dancing and laughing we ended the kight getting McDonals and going to bed.

Day three we spent time with some of family and packed. Us girls did meet up for lunch before my roomates and my flight. We ate at El Cilantrillo their food, drinks, and service was great and their portions were HUGE. Brianna and I then parted ways with Jiles and headed for the airport.

In the end, our Orlando escapade wasn't just about beaches, clubs, and theme parks—it was a testament to the exhilarating chaos of youth. As we basked in the glow of the Florida sun, embracing the thrill of the unknown with every step, it became abundantly clear: life is a snowbunny takeover, a whirlwind of laughter, friendship, and unbridled adventure. So here's to seizing the moment, to living like there's no tomorrow, and to cherishing every heartbeat of this wild ride we call life. After all, you're only young once—why not make it count?

Big City vs. Small City

As an individual who has lived in New York City for over 10 years to now living in Wichita, Kansas; a big city is very different from a small city. I have been so lucky to experience such a great tapestry of human experience in big and small cities. Each one offers a unique/ different blend of opportunities/ challenges.

BIG CITY :

Living in New York is such an experience that is truly unmatched by any other big city. Which is why I think it still stands as a hot spot for travel. There is an unbeatable energy that roams the city of New York, with all different types of people living there it is a true symbiotic relationship. This is the kaleidoscope of languages, cuisines, and perspectives. It's a melting pot of cultures, where the collision of different worlds sparks innovation and creativity.

I truly miss the hustle and bustle of New York. Having 24/7 access to anything, convenience, and proximity is like no other. It truly is the city that never sleeps. The level of diversity is so high and thankfully has exposed me to all types of people and experiences. In a city where at every turn you are able to experience something NEW!

As a young, hot, and thriving individual the relentless pace of life and opportunities can be quite rewarding. For a true socialite, career-oriented, or soul-searching a big city can be beneficial. The amount of competition also fosters highly competitive individuals that break new boundaries.

SMALL CITY:

In contrast, small cities offer a more laid-back pace and a sense of community that can be hard to find in their larger counterparts. Life moves a little slower here, allowing for deeper connections and a greater appreciation of the simple pleasures.

As a native New Yorker moving to Kansas was a learning experience. Finding most people very involved in other people's lives was so bizarre and uncharted territory. Outside of friendships, most interactions had typically been networking opportunities. So, I definitely had an adjustment period while transitioning into this small city life.

Cost of living tends to be lower in small cities, making them more accessible to a wider range of people. Housing is often more affordable, and amenities are within easy reach. While opportunities may be fewer and farther between than in big cities, there's a sense of stability and security that comes from putting down roots in a tight-knit community.

Small city life is ideal for families and allows them the time to grow. It provides people with more access than the rural areas. However, is slower-paced than big cities allowing to invest that time into each other.

Ultimately, it's about finding the balance between opportunity and quality of life, between ambition and contentment. Whether you're navigating the bustling streets of a metropolis or strolling along the tree-lined lanes of a small towns.

Embrace you and your goals.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Living on the Edge: Embracing Youthful Hotness

In a world where youthfulness is revered and aging is often feared, there's a cultural obsession with staying perpetually young. From skincare products promising to turn back the clock to cosmetic procedures aiming to defy the natural aging process, the pursuit of youthful hotness seems never-ending. But what if instead of fighting against the passage of time, we embraced it? What if we saw the beauty and power in aging gracefully, while still maintaining our vitality? Let's explore what it means to live on the edge and embrace youthful hotness in its truest sense.

Living on the edge doesn't mean clinging desperately to the past or trying to recapture lost youth. Instead, it's about embracing the present moment and celebrating who we are. It's about finding joy in the wrinkles that map out a life well-lived, and the laughter lines that tell stories of happiness and resilience. It's about recognizing that true beauty comes from within and radiates outward, regardless of age or appearance.

Youthful hotness isn't just about physical attractiveness; it's a mindset, an attitude, a way of approaching life with curiosity and enthusiasm. It's about staying open to new experiences, challenging ourselves to step out of our comfort zones, and embracing the unknown with courage and grace. It's about embracing our passions and pursuing our dreams with unwavering determination, regardless of societal expectations or limitations.

Beauty is found in the confidence that comes from knowing who you are and owning it unapologetically.

Living on the edge means embracing our flaws and imperfections as part of what makes us uniquely beautiful. It's about rejecting the notion that we have to fit into a one-size-fits-all definition of beauty and instead celebrating our individuality. It's about recognizing that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and ages, and that there is power in embracing our authenticity.

As we navigate the journey of life, let's remember that every stage has its own beauty and value. Let's celebrate the wisdom that comes with age and the vitality that comes from living with passion and purpose. And let's redefine youthful hotness not as a fleeting state of being, but as a timeless embrace of who we are, right here and now.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)

Hot, Young, & Unhinged

Welcome to "Hot, Young, and Unhinged," a blog that dives deep into the exhilarating, tumultuous world of youth. Join me as we explore the highs and lows of being young, passionate, and unapologetically bold in a world that often feels like it's spinning out of control.

From heart-pounding adventures to heart-wrenching romances, we uncover the raw, unfiltered experiences that define the journey of youth. My blog is a space for fearless exploration, where we delve into topics like risk-taking, creativity, love, rebellion, mental health, and everything in between.

Through thought-provoking articles, personal anecdotes, expert insights, and candid discussions, I aim to capture the essence of youth in all its glory and complexity. Whether you're navigating the ups and downs of relationships, chasing your dreams with unwavering passion, or challenging the status quo in pursuit of social change, this blog is your companion on the wild ride of youth.

Join me as we embrace the chaos, celebrate the triumphs, and navigate the turbulence of being hot, young, and unhinged. Welcome to a journey where every twist and turn is an opportunity for growth, discovery, and living life to the fullest.

Till next time HOTTIES (mwah)